Showing posts with label the children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label the children. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 7, 2019

gratituesday #213

SPRING. Finally! Warmer temps, longer days, color and life everywhere you look. Ahhhhhhh.

My healthy body.

A Teddy Roosevelt re-enactor (?) told his life story this morning, and afterwards, he insisted on recreating Mount Rushmore with the kids.



I guess you have to squint in your imagination.

The Edmond art show.

Rain.

Visit from the Kelloggs.

Dining out.

Spring semester ending with three weeks until the summer term.

Home study work.

Summer plans - camps, VBSs, and vacation. YAY!

Hazel's fun season at soccer; she's had the most fun.

The Gathering Place at Tulsa. Playing there for the day with co-op friends.

The backyard hammock.

The kind stranger who picked up Hazel's Snoopy (who had fallen into the SAMs parking lot unbeknownst to us) and wedged him into our car mirror.



Phew. That was a close one.


Tuesday, September 18, 2018

gratituesday #211

Carolyn passed this afternoon.  Her health actually worked against her in the end because it took longer for her body to yield.  Throughout her final week on this old earth, she mainly rested in peace; now she lives in true Peace for all eternity.

Of course it is sad to lose a loved one, but it reminds me of that old cliche - better to have loved and lost and all... It's a cliche b/c it's true, I guess.  I'm thankful for a close family who loves one another.  It's harder to say goodbye, but I keep reminding myself that hard goodbyes usually follow a greater gift.

The kids are sad - one maybe inappropriately so given the nature of their relationship - but I think the sadness points to a couple of things for which I give thanks: 1) a tender heart, and 2) a life fairly void of hardship/loss.  Wes once scoffed at the strong sadness the kids sometimes felt in response to what we know as adults are pretty frivolous issues, but I was stopped in my tracks when I realized they've had so little "real" loss that their "small" issues seem pretty big.

Speaking of, we've been listening through the Lemony Snicket's Unfortunate Events series, and I was talking about it with another mom who loves to read and listen to books with her kids.  I began to recommend it to her as our kids have loved it but realized it would actually be a fully terrible read/listen for her 4 kids as they are adopted and would not love to listen to a story of 3 orphans who suffer one loss after another.  I realized I've never had to question things like that - stories that revolve around sadness (like orphans AKA most every Disney cartoon movie ever made).  Our kids are so secure (and therefore oblivious), they can listen to hard things in a state of blissful ignorance. 

This gratituesday is rather dark.

Mountaintops are beautiful because of valleys, though, right?  Both the journey through them and the view across them?

Tuesday, August 21, 2018

gratituesday

My intention is to keep gratituesday-ing.  I think it's an important practice/pause.  We'll see...

We're 4 weeks + 1 day into 2018/19 school year, and things seem to be going well.  Starting in August means we really love ourselves in April when we can surrender to Spring Fever without regret.

While we really just homeschool, we're technically enrolled in Epic online charter school.  This only works because we have an amazing teacher who believes learning should be mostly hands on for littler learners.  She's vetted our system and trusts our process (because she can track our growth on quarterly tests).  Essentially, we're doing minimally more work for maximum rewards; for us, that's objective measures (those tests) which reassure me that we're on track and - what's really the driving factor for me - the learning fund which pays for piano lessons and the occasional art class.  A free day at Frontier City or Dodgers game is just the icing on the cake.

This year will be our 6th as homeschoolers.  I'm glad to be more certain and confident in the steps we're taking.  Listening to newbs who're trying to figure everything out reminds me of the mental exhaustion that comes with uncertainty.  It's not like we've got it all figured out, but it's much less a mystery these days, and that is so nice.

The kids are at such fun ages!  They can do so many things that make life easier (e.g., make a sandwich, put away their laundry, wipe their own hineys, etc), but they're still so easily amused and easy going.  I love how they are usually up for most anything.  Maybe it's because they realize they don't really have a choice and so they just go with it???  Not sure, but that's a good skill too. :)

Although I changed my schedule at UCO this semester this year resulting in one class not "making," I have plenty of work to do right now.  Out of nowhere home studies and updates keep me busy enough to make up for the lost income.

I was up late trying to knock out some semester preparations when I lifted a book that had my phone inside which was plugged into the charger whose cord was behind a glass that got knocked over ONTO MY KEYBOARD spilling tea everywhere.  Panic stricken, I turned my laptop sideways to drain the liquid off the keyboard and used my robe to wipe off/mop up what I could.  I had just read a story about a lady who had spilled her drink on her laptop and how everything seemed to be A-OK until 10 minutes later when she got the blue screen of death.  I immediately backed up the stuff I was working on and started copying everything most important over ASAP before going to bed with thoughts of "...bet that won't be working in the morning..." rolling around on repeat while I fell asleep.  Thankfully, here I sit 4 or 5 days later on that very computer having lost nothing.  Some of the keys were a bit gritchy the first day or two, but even that seems to have straightened itself out.  Whew!  That was a close one!

Oklahoma therapists/counselors are privy to a national pilot program resulting in 28 free continuing ed credits, and the training is actually really informative.  The goal is to increase adoptive/foster competent professionals across the nation, and the material is just so good.  I'm so glad it's worth the time invested.

Perennials.  I'm hoping our investment this year will pay off next spring.

Hazel had her first soccer practice last night.  This is our first foray into team sports, and it should be an interesting experience. :)  The beauty is that we're playing at the Y (hoping to avoid the most serious club team-type play), our coach is a close friend, and Hazel has 3 good buddies on the team.

I'm reading through 66 Love Letters by Larry Crabb, and it's providing an interesting walk through the 66 books of the Bible and the themes that run throughout.  I love just about anything that highlights God's creative ability to intricately weave His inerrant word using 40ish humans over thousands of years that is as applicable today as it has been at every point of history.  Incredible.

Our neighbor calls us when her mobile pet service is calling on them so that Betty can jump in and get her nails trimmed in a trailer across the street.  Not only is it convenient, it's proven very helpful in figuring out that Betty's nails had remained too long before we got her and now we can course-correct the issue (that would otherwise lead to skeletal issues in her legs) by getting her nails trimmed every 2-3 weeks.  We've already got her back feet in good shape, and her front paws are on their way.

The Stallings, some dear friends of 20 years, are moving to Wisconsin tomorrow.  It has been a possibility for years, but it has all actually happened in a startlingly short amount of time - 8 days from accepting the job to actually leaving.  40+ friends were able to gather Saturday for a "see ya later" party, and I was doing just fine (not really thinking about it) until the end of the night when Rachel hugged me long and hard and then pulled away with tears in her eyes.  I know it won't change MY day-to-day interaction with her since we haven't lived in the same city since college, but it's hard to see a good friend do hard things so far away.  Rachel said she'd told Monty that she'd be back in OK for our shared birthday in a few months, and I'm looking forward to it already.

Speaking of looking forward to it, after not having flown anywhere since 2013, I've made plans that include flying TWICE in the next two months!  I'm beyond excited.  I'm headed to Chicago with a couple friends in September to catch a live recording of a podcast and eat a good meal or 2.  That's literally all we'll have time for as we leave town Saturday morning and will be able to eat lunch with our families after church Sunday morning!  Wes and I have booked an anniversary trip to Oregon in October, and I'm beside myself with anticipation.

Thursday, December 15, 2016

early Christmas

We let the kids open their "big gift" a little early so they could make use of their new Kindles on the family ski trip tomorrow.


Tuesday, December 13, 2016

turkey time

In case your Thanksgiving dinner didn't turn out quite as delicious as you'd planned, maybe you can take some tips from these turkeys:



Monday, December 5, 2016

formal letters

The kids' writing classes at co-op learned about formal letters this week and put their knowledge to good use (namely flattering candy companies in hopes of some free candy). :)




Friday, December 2, 2016

red nosed reindeers

It's amazing what a lot of fun can be had with a little foam nose. :)




Wednesday, November 30, 2016

Friday, November 18, 2016

"pre-holiday" piano recital

Zeke did a great job at his first recital!  He's had his recital piece the last couple of months but failed to mention we'd be playing it as a duet until last week. :)



This is Hazel's third recital, and she was dishing out advice to Zeke like the seasoned old pro that she is.  She even went without music this year.


Wednesday, November 9, 2016

wide open wednesday



 We attended a Wide Open Wednesday at The Cowboy Hall of Fame and Western Heritage Museum this morning and really enjoyed ourselves.




The kids favorite exhibit was hands down the triptychs in the Great Hall.  They were astounding! "Take our picture, Mom! They're huge!"


Monday, October 31, 2016

halloween with a summer twist


If there was a place to sign up for Halloween to be warm enough for shorts for the rest of my life, I'd be first in line.





october outtakes


I love to ask her what her longest fingers are...







Saturday, October 8, 2016

s'more to love



 Wes made a fire pit and the backyard, and we wasted no time putting it to good use (even if it was too hot for a fire AKA shorts weather).


Friday, September 16, 2016

seek and ye shall find

 Most fall mornings we can hear the faint sounds of a marching band rehearsal.  I realized it must have been the high school closest to our house, so I called their band department and talked to a super nice assistant director.  He invited us to attend a rehearsal, and we took him up on his kind offer this morning.  After we found the band, we found some yummy bagels too. What a lovely morning of discovery. :)



Thursday, September 15, 2016

music makers


Our parks and rec department has random art meet-ups in the local parks; you show up and do whatever it is that they've contrived for the day.  It's very loose and exactly why I love the flexibility our schedule offers.

This week we used sticks from the park to make "music makers" which would be more accurately named "noise makers."  The kids had a great time especially after they discovered the unlimited supply of duct tape.  Who knew taping sticks could be so fun?


Saturday, September 3, 2016

rodeo parade




The kids look forward to the candy grab rodeo parade all year, and this year was extra fun since Addy joined them.

Pearl's favorite part of the parade were the longhorns walking calmly down the street.  This unbounded herd always makes me a little nervous, but it's so cool to see.



I'm so glad I didn't know the boys next to us were trying to grab the horns.  There likely would have been an ugly public moment if I had realized how reckless they were acting right next to my babies.



And after the sirens and color guard and longhorns and rodeo organizers on horses came by, the candy came forth.

Make it rain!







Hazel said her favorite part of the parade were the horses.  She remembered the "spotty ones" most. :)




  Is there any such thing as a cowgirl plie?




Zeke first said he liked the candy best but later changed his answer to seeing the cowboys. :)